Beat Burnout: 3 Gentle Steps to Get Your Energy Back

Burnout isn’t just about doing too much — it’s about giving more energy than you’re getting back. If you feel drained, unmotivated, or detached, these 3 steps can help you reset and feel human again.


Step 1: Identify Your Energy Leaks

Ask: What drains me the most lately? Tasks? People? Environments?

Make a quick “Energy Audit” — 3 things that drain, 3 things that restore.

💡 Backed by: Emotional energy theory, behavioural economics (decision fatigue)


Step 2: Rebuild Micro-Rituals for Recovery

Reintroduce small restorative moments into your day: 5-minute walks, sun breaks, deep breathing, laughter, music, rest-without-guilt.

💡 Science: Recovery is most effective when it’s regular and meaningful (not just passive).


Step 3: Lower the Pressure — and Reconnect to Meaning

Replace “I have to do this” with “I choose to do this because…” Find purpose in small actions, not just big goals. Burnout heals when meaning returns.

💡 Based on: Self-Determination Theory, ACT therapy, values-based living


More energy. More peace. Less guilt.

Burnout is real — but it’s not permanent. Start small. Start now.

Fix Your Focus: 3 Steps to Reclaim Your Attention and Get Stuff Done

Struggling to concentrate? You’re not alone. Distractions are everywhere, and our brains are tired. But you can train your focus — no hacks, just real strategies that work. Here’s a 3-step system to help you get your focus back, fast.


Step 1: Create a Ritual to Signal Focus Mode

Brains love cues. Whether it’s lighting a candle, putting on headphones, or opening a specific app — use a simple ritual to tell your brain it’s time to focus.

💡 Backed by: Classical conditioning, context-dependent memory


Step 2: Work in Short, Protected Sprints (with Boundaries)

Use the Pomodoro technique (25 mins work, 5 mins rest) — or any version that suits your rhythm. Put your phone on airplane mode. Set a timer. Commit.

💡 Science: Focus peaks in cycles. Sustained attention works best in bursts (neuroscience + flow research)


Step 3: Review Progress, Not Perfection

End your session with a 2-minute reflection: What worked? What didn’t? What will I improve next time?

💡 Why it helps: Reflection strengthens focus over time — it’s metacognition in action.


Want more science-backed productivity tips?

Check out my upcoming guide on habit-building, burnout recovery, and AI tools for deep work.

How I Overcame Procrastination: A 3-Step, Science-Backed System That Actually Works

Procrastination used to control my life — missed deadlines, anxiety, late nights, and that constant guilty voice in the back of my head.

The good news? You can overcome it, and you don’t need to rely on motivation alone. Here’s the 3-step system that helped me finally beat procrastination — grounded in psychology, personal experience, and a bit of data science.


Step 1: Observe the Behaviour & Understand the Pattern

Like in behavioural experiments, the first step is observation.

Take a few days and track your actions. What tasks are you putting off — and what are you doing instead? That’s your “procrastination hierarchy.”

💡 Why it works: Understanding what you’re avoiding (and why) gives you power. Often, it’s the hardest or most emotionally aversive task at the bottom of your list.


Step 2: Use Productive Procrastination to Your Advantage

Turns out, procrastinating can be productive — when used wisely. Instead of fighting it, use the energy of avoidance to complete easier tasks higher up in your task hierarchy.

🎯 Quick win: Do the second-hardest thing first. Trick your brain into working through the list while avoiding the worst one.

💡 Science behind it: This is called productive procrastination, and it’s backed by research (Piers Steel, 2007). Outsourcing or collaborating also adds behavioural reinforcement to the task.


Step 3: Create the Right Stress Level & Momentum

Most people don’t work well under high stress — but moderate pressure can actually boost performance.

  • Set a soft mini-deadline (a few days ahead)
  • Break down the task into micro steps (2-minute actions)
  • Add small pleasures to boring or aversive tasks (snacks, music, sunlight)

💡 Bonus Tip: Use ChatGPT or another AI tool as your coach. Try this prompt:

“Break this task into 3 micro-steps. I only have 15 minutes.”

This helps reduce overwhelm and builds instant momentum.


Bonus Tips

  • Combine boring tasks with something fun or comforting (snacks, music)
  • Start with tasks you already know to build confidence
  • Get better sleep — research shows it helps reduce next-day procrastination

Final Thoughts

Procrastination doesn’t make you lazy. It just means something deeper is going on — discomfort, perfectionism, or overwhelm.

Use this 3-step system to gently shift your behaviour, get more done, and actually feel good at the end of the day.


✨ Want more science-backed 3-step solutions?

Coming soon: A free guide to help you fix focus, beat burnout, and build habits that stick. Stay tuned!

Exercised: The Science of Physical Activity, Rest, and Health – Book Review

Do you feel overwhelmed by the pressure to work out?

Do you find it hard to balance physical activity with the rest of your busy life?

Have you ever wondered if there’s a better way to approach health and fitness—one that doesn’t make you feel guilty, stressed, or burned out?

You’re not alone. With constant advice to “move more” or “sit less,” it’s easy to feel like you’re falling short. But here’s the truth: the way we think about exercise today might not align with how our bodies are designed to work.

Daniel Lieberman’s book, Exercised: The Science of Physical Activity, Rest, and Health, uncovers the evolutionary reasons behind why we struggle with exercise—and how we can change our approach to movement and rest to feel healthier, stronger, and happier.

Why Should You Read This Book?

If you’ve ever felt guilty about skipping a workout or overwhelmed by modern fitness culture, Exercised will change your perspective completely.

Daniel Lieberman isn’t here to sell you a workout plan or make you feel bad about resting. Instead, he takes a deep dive into the science behind physical activity, rest, and health to help you understand:

  • Why exercise feels unnatural for most people.
  • Why resting isn’t something to feel guilty about.
  • How small, sustainable changes can lead to better health.

It’s not about becoming a fitness fanatic—it’s about understanding your body and working with it, not against it.

What Makes This Book Unique?

Unlike many fitness books, Exercised combines cutting-edge science, anthropology, and practical advice. Lieberman examines how our ancestors moved, rested, and lived—and how these evolutionary habits influence modern humans today.

One of the most surprising revelations? Humans didn’t evolve to exercise for fun. Movement was always tied to survival, whether it was hunting, gathering, or running from danger. But in today’s world, we’ve removed necessity from movement, and exercising on purpose can feel unnatural.

Here are just a few of the fascinating topics covered in the book:

  • The myth of sitting: Is sitting really the “new smoking,” or is the story more complex?
  • Why we’re “naturally lazy”: It’s not your fault! Lieberman explains the biological reasons we’re wired to conserve energy.
  • The benefits of movement: From walking to gardening, the book highlights why simple, everyday activities can be just as beneficial as gym workouts.

Does It Offer Practical Advice?

Yes! Lieberman’s insights aren’t just theoretical—they’re actionable.

He encourages readers to reframe their mindset around movement and exercise. Instead of forcing yourself to follow trends or chase perfection, Lieberman suggests finding ways to move that you enjoy.

Here’s what makes this advice so refreshing:

  • You don’t need to spend hours at the gym.
  • Resting is part of a healthy lifestyle.
  • Walking, playing, or even light chores count as valuable physical activity.

Why Is This Book Life-Changing?

Because it’s not about guilt, pressure, or impossible standards.

Exercised helps you understand your body in a way that feels empowering. It gives you the tools to embrace movement and rest without stress or shame.

When you start applying the lessons in this book, you’ll:

  • Feel more confident about your health journey.
  • Let go of the guilt associated with rest.
  • Discover fun, simple ways to move that fit into your life.

Your Guide to a Healthier, Happier Life

If you’re tired of feeling like you’ll never measure up to the latest fitness trends, Exercised: The Science of Physical Activity, Rest, and Health is the book you need. It’s not about pushing yourself to extremes—it’s about finding balance and joy in how you move and rest.

When you follow Lieberman’s advice, you’ll realize that health isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing what works for you.

It’s time to embrace movement, rediscover rest, and take back control of your health.

Are you ready to get started? Pick up Exercised today, and take the first step toward a healthier, happier life!

Sleep Procrastination

A New Study (2018) Reveals the Old Reason for the Sleep Procrastination

sleep procrastination

Are you struggling to go to bed on time?

Are you a responsible person who fails to go to bed on time, especially on the first days of the week? You can’t wake up on time and you need to snooze your alarm clock severally.

After you finally got up, you have to run to get ready to work, have breakfast and be on time everywhere.

At work, you demonstrate poor performance. In addition to that, you start feeling guilty; you blame yourself about your ability to control yourself.

Well, there are several studies which have shown the relationship between sleep procrastination and a lack of self-regulatory resources.

However, a new study (2018) has been discovered why don’t you go to bed on time. I will describe it briefly. Continue reading “Sleep Procrastination”

The Secret of What Makes a Winner

What Makes a Winner Win (Backed by Science)

How to Win

You see successful people around you, on social media and TV. Lawyers who win cases. Athletes who attain gold medals. Singers who win talent competitions.

Are you wondering how do they do it?

Most people believe that those who are successful have talent, and that they don’t have it. Nothing can be done — end of story.

I am sure that you are different. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading this article.

And you are absolutely right. There is a secret to what makes someone a winner. Psychologists have done much research on this and here are the results. Continue reading “The Secret of What Makes a Winner”

How to Overcome Procrastination

The Ultimate Guide to Stop Procrastinating and Get Your To-do List Done

How to stop procrastinating

Is it difficult for you to do everything you have planned? Are you missing exams, and deadlines?

Sometimes, by the time you start a task, it’s already late – and the stress becomes too high, and you can’t focus.

Do you regularly wake up in the morning and remember your to-do list? Yet, instead of starting work on it, you tend to do anything else. Maybe you start by checking your emails…

You might then message and comment under a post on your favourite Facebook group. Also, you probably think about postponing things during the day.

Welcome to the club! You are procrastinating.

And procrastination is dangerous. Continue reading “How to Overcome Procrastination”

So Good They Can’t Ignore You – Book Review

How to Become So Good They Can’t Ignore You.

So Good They Can’t Ignore You

Are you stuck with your career?

Do you want to have a successful life, but you don’t know how or what to do?

Are you wondering why certain people are successful, and you are not?

In the meantime, you don’t know what you actually want in life. You are wondering what path to follow. Furthermore, all these thoughts make you feel lost, upset and unhappy. 

Are you seriously going to just watch other people succeed? I must warn you that this will lead to more anxiety and depression.

You need to rediscover your passion. Stop procrastinating and start retaking actions again. It’s time for a change!

But, how? Continue reading “So Good They Can’t Ignore You – Book Review”